Friday, January 18, 2008

Sauced

But first, a bit of trivia that I learned the other day. Its one of those you just found this OUT? sorts of things. When I was in Thailand with the military, I had some shirts and other clothes made by local tailors. Ah, memories of waistlines long since gone. One of them was a black silk smoking jacket. I had absolutely no place to wear it, but I liked it because it made me feel cool, suave, sophisticated. (Must have been one hell of a jacket, eh?) I knew that because it was called a smoking jacket, it must have had something to do with the ritual of smoking. What I recently learned was that this was the jacket that a gentleman wore when he and his cronies retired for some casual puffing after a dinner; the reason for the jacket was to wear instead of the normal jacket, so that the aroma, aka the stench, of the smoke wouldn't permeate the jacket one normally wore. I thought that was a neat bit of trivia. I also know why a tuxedo is called that, and what it's really called, if anyone wants to know.

I didn't bake the cake today. We made dinner (more comfort food -- meatloaf), and did some cleaning up, and just didn't quite get around to it. My wife said that she's planning to take down the artificial Christmas tree that sits in an alcove in our kitchen; I asked if she'd mind leaving it up a bit longer. It's a cheerful sight, especially when the room lights are off, and I've felt the need for some cheer of late, for some reason. She agreed to give it a stay of execution for a bit. But speaking of comfort food, my wife's theory is that just about everything that has carbs in it in any appreciable quantity can be used as a comfort food; she's likely right -- which is something I thought about when I came across this site, which is dedicated to one person's pursuit of the perfect lasagna. I've never made lasagna (a dessert one, once, yes; it was a noble effort with minimal results), but I've wanted to -- though not the classic hyperstuffed kind. I'd prefer something small. In fact, one day we brought some home from my mother in laws house, and when she told my wife that it ought to be two, possibly three servings, she laughed and said that with me, it'd be more like six or seven. Her mother was amazed that anyone could eat that little of anything, but especially this. Doesn't he like lasagna? she asked, curiously. My wife said yes, I do -- but I just don't 't like big meals. Her mother was startled. This little thing, a big meal?

But even with that, there's something about the image of someone cooking, particularly the big pot of sauce, all bubbling with basil and oregano and whatnot, that's always appealed to me. It smells like home. Not my home, necessarily; not this home -- but home. Strange, huh?

6 comments:

Unknown said...

I didn't know you were in the military, what branch were you in? I have a lot of family that served so it is something I've always been interested in.

I also didn't know why they were called smoking jackets either. And I have no idea why it is called a tuxedo so if you would like to impart some wisdom that would be great.

Cerulean Bill said...

I was in the Air Force - four years as an enlisted guy, repairing radios for aircraft (not flying; this was on the ground here and in Thailand/Vietnam), and four years in the Strategic Air Command as a missile launch officer -- one of those guys who sits in a two-person capsule, waiting desperately for the chance to annihilate much of the world, and in the meantime sleeping or reading pornography. Considering how much I despise large authoritarian organizations, it amazes me that effectively all of my employed life has been in working for one.

Essentially, the jacket was popularized in Tuxedo Park, New York. Prior to that, the garment was (and actually still is) known as a dinner jacket. There's a nice writeup here.

Unknown said...

Having the ability to blow up part of the world sounds like a fun job hah. I'm surprised it hasn't happened yet, but I guess I'm glad it hasn't.
I was in Air Force JROTC in high school and I've been on McGuire AFB a couple of times, ever been there?

I wonder if my mom know why it is called a tuxedo. She loves little bits of trivia like that, I'll have to pass it on.

Cerulean Bill said...

I am surprised that no one has used a nuclear weapon in the last fifty years (that period carefully chosen). I expect that it will happen. Command and control isn't what it used to be, and in the newly-nuclear, it isn't even that.

I seem to recall being at McGuire once for something, but I'm damned if I can recall why. When I went overseas, I went through Travis, out in California. Boy, did I enjoy that. I've never been particularly adventurous, and one of my minor regrets is that I didn't take the time to see more of the area. Did get some time in San Francisco, though; that was fun.

Yes, by all means tell your mother. Be sure to mention that you heard it from this older guy on the Internet, and that he wants to meet you somewhere private. I'm sure she'd be interested. (g)

Scary part is, there ARE people like that. And they look normal, just like..um..

Unknown said...

I've only been to California twice, but I really love it. San Francisco is a cool city. I might be spending a month out there this summer, I'm excited.

I'll be sure to tell my mom all the details. "Ya he is some older guy I know from the internet, he is going to be my dance partner, and he is going to make me so ice cream."

There was one time when my friends and I went into NYC and they met up with a guy they met online. One of my friends actually dated him for about 2 years, but then she broke up with him and he turned out to be kind of crazy hah.

Cerulean Bill said...

I know that the majority, perhaps the vast majority, of people whom you contact and know only via the Internet are normal -- perhaps they have quirks as does anyone, but they're not psychos, crazies, all of that. Yet the cost of one of them turning out to be evil wackos is so high, you kind of have to assume that they are. I don't think I'd say don't meet someone that you only know via the net; but absolutely don't do it without safeguards -- in public, preferably with friends. I did it once, meeting a doctor I know (the one I refer to on occasion as an acquaintance, not a friend), and I did it with my wife and daughter there. It was at a medical conference in Philadelphia. She said she told her husband she was going to meet this guy she only knew via the net... and his wife. Being from California, I'm not sure what they made of that.

California can be a very, very cool place. I've only been through Napa, San Francisco, down Highway 1 to Los Angeles, and San Diego, but I liked all of it. Now that I like living in a rural area, I'm not sure I'd move, but I sure would visit.