Recently I overheard a Father and daughter in their last moments together at the airport. They had announced the departure.
Standing near the security gate, they hugged and the Father said, 'I love you, and I wish you enough.'
The daughter replied, 'Dad, our life together has been more than enough. Your love is all I ever needed. I wish you enough, too, Dad.'
They kissed and the daughter left. The Father walked over to the window where I was seated. Standing there I could see he wanted and needed to cry. I tried not to intrude on his privacy, but he welcomed me in by asking, 'Did you ever say good-bye to someone knowing it would be forever?'
'Yes, I have,' I replied. 'Forgive me for asking, but why is this a forever good-bye?'.
'I am old, and she lives so far away. I have challenges ahead and the reality is - the next trip back will be for my funeral,' he said.
'When you were saying good-bye, I heard you say, 'I wish you enough.' May I ask what that means?'
He began to smile. 'That's a wish that has been handed down from other generations. My parents used to say it to everyone..' He paused a moment and looked up as if trying to remember it in detail, and he smiled even more. 'When we said, 'I wish you enough,' we were wanting the other person to have a life filled with just enough good things to sustain them.' Then turning toward me, he shared the following as if he were reciting it from memory.
I wish you enough sun to keep your attitude bright no matter how grey the day may appear.
I wish you enough rain to appreciate the sun even more.
I wish you enough happiness to keep your spirit alive and everlasting.
I wish you enough pain so that even the smallest of joys in life may appear bigger.
I wish you enough gain to satisfy your wanting.
I wish you enough loss to appreciate all that you possess.
I wish you enough hellos to get you through the final good- bye.
He then began to cry and walked away.
They say it takes a minute to find a special person, an hour to appreciate them, a day to love them; but then an entire life to forget them.
To all my friends and loved ones ... I wish you enough, and a very healthy, happy and awesome 2010!!
7 comments:
This is so powerful. It is how we all feel but do not have the courage to say to those we love. I am going to save this post and tack it to my screen!
I'm not normally one for feel-good sentiments, but this one spoke to me. I'm glad you liked it.
Wow, I am in tears. Congrats on POTW mention at Hilary's.
Thank you. I wasn't the origin of this; it came from my wife, who received it from an unknown source. It seems to speak to everyone.
Sorry, I don't know what 'Hilary's' is.
A lovely story. Thank you. By the way, you have been mentioned as a post of the week at The Smitten Image. That's what "Hilary's" is. Go there and you'll see. I didn't understand when she mentioned me once, either.
Huh. Wish I knew who originated it, so that I could credit them, and simply bask in the reflected glory.
Thanks, Cricket.
Thanks, Daryl - I appreciate it.
And Tabor? Thanks for kicking all of this off.
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