Friday, May 08, 2015
My wife works with a disabled girl as her personal aide. Part of doing that is helping them do a special meal every so often, where the kids have to ask you what you want, give it to you, and make change. I admit that when I would hear of this, I would think Well, that's nice, but its not a big deal. Today, for the first time, I went to one of these meals, and I saw the kids in action. I realized that for some of these kids, it is a big deal. Some can't look you in the eye. Some can only communicate with grunts and a form of sign language. A couple of the kids have Downs, and a couple more have problems with impulse control. At least one of the latter was big enough, though young, that he could give me a run for my money. The size kid who makes high school football coaches salivate.
One of the kids was a quiet, shy girl. I noticed that she didn't respond easily to questions, and, indeed, my wife says that this is a characteristic of hers - she responds very slowly, if at all, unless she has recently had an epileptic seizure, when for a little while she responds normally. Yet to look at her, all you see is a cute 13 year old girl with a ponytail.
I found myself wondering what the boys in her class see.
Time: 2:21 PM