I'm a bright guy.  I know this.  But I also know that I'm not as bright as I (sometimes) think I am, and I'm frequently not as insightful as other people, even most other people.  I'm not oblivious to them, but I sure do seem to let a lot of nuances go by.  This might relate directly to my difficulty in making friends.
But today I got a surprise that makes me suspect that I am not even as bright as I think I am given the caveat above.  In a nutshell, I had a technical discussion with a coworker who I've always thought of as not particularly bright -- and he just blew my doors right off.  I mean, he thought of things and read things that I would not have considered except in the wildest extremes.  He had insights that I'm not sure I've had in the last twenty years.
I was astounded, and humbled.
Being humbled is good, sometimes it just reminds us that we either judge too quickly or don't listen enough.
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